The 5am start is one of the toughest sleep problems because there's no easy bribe at dawn. Usually it's a mix of body clock, light, and an over-early or over-late bedtime.
Even a little dawn light tells a toddler it's morning. Proper blackout blinds are the single biggest fix.
A light that turns colour at a set time gives them a clear, visual rule for when the day starts.
Overtired toddlers often wake earlier, not later. An earlier bedtime can paradoxically buy a later morning.
No screens, no big breakfast, no playtime before the target time. Make early waking unrewarding.
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It's common but not unchangeable. A truly 'normal' wake is closer to 6 to 7am; with darkness and a consistent routine most early risers shift later.