Dropping the nap too early makes everyone miserable; too late and bedtime falls apart. The goal is to read your child, not the calendar.
Fighting the nap daily, taking ages to fall asleep at night, or skipping naps with no meltdown — for weeks, not one odd day.
Swap the nap for 30 to 60 minutes of calm 'rest time' in their room. They recharge without the bedtime battle.
A no-nap day means an overtired evening. Shift bedtime 30 to 45 minutes earlier to catch up the lost sleep.
Drop to a shorter or every-other-day nap before cutting it completely. Sudden changes hit hard.
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Replace the nap with calm quiet time, bring bedtime earlier to absorb the lost sleep, and move gradually rather than cutting it overnight.