Picky eating is a normal toddler phase, but it's stressful and can stall if mealtimes become a fight. The way out is less pressure, not more.
'Just one bite' backfires. Serve the food, stay neutral, let them choose. Pressure is the biggest driver of picky eating.
Put something you know they'll eat alongside the new food. A full tummy and zero panic makes them braver over time.
Touching, smelling, licking and putting food back is how toddlers learn to accept it. Exposure without pressure is the whole game.
Modelling beats nagging. Enjoy the food in front of them with no comment about what they're doing.
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Serve new foods beside a safe favourite, remove all pressure, let them explore with their hands, and model eating it yourself. Relaxed repeated exposure is what works.